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Why Venting Isn’t Enough: The Real Cost of Staying Stuck

Updated: Jan 23

We’ve all been there—sharing frustrations with friends, feeling temporarily relieved but finding ourselves grappling with the same issues months or even years later. Venting may offer comfort, but it rarely leads to meaningful change.



The difference between staying stuck and moving forward often lies in how we choose to invest in ourselves. Successful leaders and high achievers don’t just talk about their problems—they take deliberate action to solve them. They invest in personal growth through coaches, mentors, and counsellors because they understand that time is their most valuable resource.


As entrepreneur and investor Naval Ravikant wisely advises:


“Set and enforce an aspirational hourly rate. If fixing a problem will cost less than your rate, outsource it.”


This mindset shift allows leaders to focus their time and energy on high-impact activities rather than getting bogged down in tasks that don’t contribute to their growth.



The Value of Time Among the World’s Most Successful


Consider the value top leaders place on their time:

Elon Musk: With a net worth of approximately $447 billion, Musk’s earnings are staggering. Estimates suggest he makes around $1.6 million per hour. 


Bill Gates: His net worth allows for an estimated income of about $319,635 per hour. 


While these figures are extraordinary, they underscore a critical point: these individuals prioritize their time as an invaluable asset.


Now, let’s bring this perspective closer to home. In Singapore, the average manager earns approximately SGD 5,632 per month. Assuming a standard 40-hour workweek, this equates to roughly SGD 32.60 per hour.


Reflect on your own time valuation. If you considered your time to be worth SGD 100 or even SGD 1,000 per hour, would you continue to engage in unproductive venting, or would you take decisive steps toward resolving recurring challenges?


Investing in professional guidance isn’t merely for the affluent; it’s a strategic move to enhance personal and professional growth. By valuing your time and seeking constructive solutions, you can break free from persistent issues and achieve meaningful progress.


Now ask yourself:

If your time were worth $1,000 an hour, how would you spend it?

Would you continue venting about problems, or would you invest in real solutions to break free from recurring challenges?


Actionable Steps to Break the Cycle

1. Set Your Own Aspirational Hourly Rate: Even if it feels ambitious, start valuing your time higher. Use this as a guide for deciding where to focus your energy.

2. Invest in Professional Guidance: Seek out coaches, mentors, or counsellors who can help you develop strategies to overcome challenges.

3. Delegate and Outsource: Let go of tasks that don’t align with your goals. Free up time for what truly matters.

4. Take Action, Not Just Reflection: Move beyond talking—implement small, consistent actions to create lasting change.


Investing in your personal growth isn’t just for the wealthy. It’s a strategic move that can transform how you live, work, and lead. While venting to friends, partners, or colleagues might offer temporary relief, it often keeps you circling the same challenges without real progress. Lasting change comes from intentional action, not repeated conversations.


Your time is your most valuable asset—how are you spending it?


Small, intentional steps today can lead to lasting change tomorrow. If you’re ready to start valuing your time and investing in meaningful growth, reach out for a conversation on how you can break free from old patterns and create lasting progress.



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